Crazy Ralph - The Real Story Behind the Real Story
My twin-grandchildren, Danny & Emma, then about 3 or 4 years old, always wanted to
hear about Ralph's adventures whenever they slept over at our house. When asked if
they would like a bedtime book-reading or a Boppa-told story (that would be me), their
choice was always the same: "Tell us a Crazy Ralph story."
The stories streamed from my memory, often filled in by my wife, and their grandmother, Julie.
(She was the one that really raised Ralph.) I wasn't just telling his stories. I was reliving
them.
Ralph was a truly awesome dog. He had an untamed spirit that remained untamed
despite our many efforts to train him over the years. He died in 2009, about a year
before Danny & Emma were born in 2010.
I decided to put his stories to print. Not in a published book, just written so they
wouldn't be forgotten and so our youngest granddaughter, Aubrey (born in 2014), could
learn about Crazy Ralph, too.
The writing was just a collection of Ralph's outrageously-crazy adventures. Nothing
more. There was no ending. Not much of a beginning either.
Then came the time when "Luna," the grandkids' dog that they grew up with,
started slowing down noticeably. She was about 9 or 10 years old then. It soon
became obvious that Luna was close to the end of life's journey. She was dying. That's
when I decided that Ralph's story had to have an ending. I wanted the twins, Danny
and Emma, now 14-years-old, and Aubrey now 10 years old, to understand - and be
comforted in knowing -- that the end of a dog's life here on earth is just the beginning of
their never-ending life in paradise.
I encouraged them to read the now completed book - with an ending narrated by Ralph
himself - during this difficult time as Luna struggled. Emma informed me that they
would be more inclined to read it, especially Aubrey, if the book was illustrated. So I
hired a freelance illustrator to put together chapter illustrations. I then had most
everything needed to publish. And so it was in 2025, the book was published on
Amazon.
The real purpose of "The Real-Life Story of Crazy Ralph" is to tell young readers that
their deeply loved animal is now - not just in a better place - but in an indescribably
magnificent place. And that theyve been restored to full health and vigor. Very importantly, they long to see their human family sometime in the distant future when
everyone is together again in heaven.
Most important is Ralph's last statement at the very end of the book. He implores his
human family to "Please be happy for me … I hope you will bring another dog into your
home and give him such a wonderful life as I had with you."
If this book comforts children at all by understanding that their much-loved pet is in a
wonderful paradise and wants their family to bring another dog into their wonderful
home, then it has achieved its purpose.
I'm 81 years old now and look forward to the day that I won't be simply reliving Crazy Ralph
stories. I'll be living them. With Ralph.